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The Bachelor: The Final Rose

Was there really any doubt who Brad would choose?  Mother Teresa Barbie aka Emily has had Brad’s heart from their first date.  I was worried that he wasn’t good enough for her, and still think that might be the case, but he seems to genuinely love her.

It seemed quite obvious to me throughout this episode that he just wasn’t feeling it with Chantal. He rarely kissed her on the lips, didn’t touch her often, and picked a date where they weren’t really able to talk or interact.  His behavior toward Emily was completely opposite.  Even his mom commented on the fact that he couldn’t keep his hands off of her.  And almost all of their dates have been romantic, with plenty of time to talk and get personal.

I did feel kind of bad for Chantal.  She jumped in, heart and soul, quite early on.  I think she’s in love with the idea of being in love — she’s already met another guy and thinks he might be the one.  But I felt some of her pain during the “After the Final Rose.” Brad was quite honest about being in love with Emily for a long time, and that left Chantal feeling like a fool.  Especially after she pleaded with him -more than once- to send her home if he knew it was going to work with her.  It just so happened that it obviously DIDN’T work with other girls more than her.  Michelle was too controlling, Shawntel’s job creeped Brad out, and his relationship with Ashley H. stagnated.  So he was left with Chantal, who had no chance of competing with Emily.

So where are they now?  Apparently there was talk of making the “After the Final Rose” show their wedding.  But Emily is wise enough to know that their relationship needs real world experience before making that commitment.  They spoke of Brad’s temper being an issue.  I saw a small bit on Entertainment Tonight where they interviewed an old girlfriend of Brad’s.  She mentioned his temper as well.  But Brad said that Emily was worth making every effort to change.

I have to say, I was surprised with how in depth Chris Harrison went into their relationship.  I felt like he was playing ‘couples therapist’ in front of millions of viewers.  And by the way, I can’t STAND Chris Harrison.  He is so cheesy and scripted — it takes great willpower for me not to skip through anything he says.

So in the end, Brad chose Emily.  Only time will tell if they actually make it to the altar, but I believe Brad loves Emily enough to make it happen and fight for their relationship.

Ashley H. was named the next Bachelorette on Jimmy Kimmel Live last night.  The new season airs May 23 at 7 pm CST on ABC.


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I was UPSET that Emily won. SO flipping upset. I could never see the two of them together. It has bugged me since the beginning that he was clearly enamored with her and never really gave any of the other girls a shot. I was rooting for Chantal the whole time. I never really saw the appeal with Emily- like if you take away her looks and just look at her stats- she’s not much of a catch. She was a pregnant unmarried teenager. She doesn’t have a real job, instead she “works” for her dead fiance’s family, who still support her. She’s also still very young- and has dated only a handful of guys that are all race car drivers. I also can’t ever see her moving to Austin- regardless of what she says- she’s way too dependent on her family. I’m not saying that she’s not sweet, and cute, blah blah blah. This whole season just bugged me.

Surprisingly, this is one of the few times I’ve been happy with the ending. I think it was OBVIOUS that Brad liked Emily more than any other girl. And that’s how it should be! If you have an instant attraction to someone, where you fee like a giddy teenager, that will override any other slow-building relationship. I kind of felt bad for Chantal since truly, it was obvious he loved Emily… however, why, if she was already so happy in her new life, did she still have such a meltdown? If I was in love with someone new, wouldn’t they have the same reaction of being hurt if I was crying over some other guy?

Well, I think it’s the first time something reasonable has come out afterward. I think it’s totally smart not to jump into marriage… even if you WANT to marry them. My mom always said- try and see that person in every possible situation, so you know if you’ll be okay with everything. And if Emily is okay with his temper, great. I know a lot of men with tempers. But, I still think it’s smart to spend time together in the “real” world- not rose-filled bachelor world.

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